Now I wish that I could say I received a question in the year 2012 from
an 8-year old asking, “Is there really a Santa Claus?” But I would be lying. First, I haven't been writing blogs long enough to get those kinds of questions. Second,
in 2012 the question would likely be Googled, not asked to a writer. So, the
issue becomes a bit more complex and challenging. I’m going to tackle it by
first asking a couple of questions.
Questions like, what is Virginia’s question
really asking? What prompted Virginia’s letter to the
Sun? One rendition goes something like this. It was Virginia’s birthday and
she had received some gifts. Instead of enjoying her presents, she panicked, wondering
if she was going to get any more
gifts for Christmas. Some of her classmates were telling her that Santa Claus
was a myth, which to an 8 year old could mean –“what, no presents?” So, Virginia decided to ask
her father, who deferred the question to the Sun, saying, “If you see it in the
Sun, its so.” Not a great parenting strategy, in my opinion, but it satisfied Virginia for the moment.
So, was Virginia really curious
about whether or not Santa existed? Did she just want to know whether she was
going to get cool stuff for Christmas? Or was she asking if there’s a magical way
in which all of our wishes can get fulfilled? In the realm of magical wish fulfillment,
I can see a couple of child psychologists calling the Sun’s answer, “dangerous stuff for young
minds.” Would this create the idea that wishes can be fulfilled in magical ways
by mystical creatures that travel in the middle of the night via uncanny means
approaching the speed of light? You can see where a psychologist might not
support the Sun’s response, and answer instead, “ No Virginia, there is no
Santa Claus. Its just a story made up by your parents to make you behave. And
parents, if you need to make up a story to discipline your kids, perhaps you
should enroll in some parenting classes instead.” End of story, and Virginia’s innocence
lands on the floor next to the Christmas tree with a resounding crash.
Now, perhaps it is true that in the world of iPhones and Google, no
child can really be as innocent as Virginia, and certainly
no child is likely to be traumatized by finding out that Santa doesn’t really
exist – at least not in the flesh and blood kind of way. So, is the question even
relevant today? My answer to that is, yes, a thousand times, yes. As we find
ourselves grappling with the dark side of human nature in the wake of the Sandy Hook tragedy, adults
and children alike want to know the answer to Virginia’s real question –
is there a reason to believe in the giving spirit, in the spirit of love and
generosity? As we struggle with the reality that many children in our
communities still live in poverty, and many parents continue to be unemployed
or underemployed, yes, the question is more relevant than ever before.
So, is there a Santa Claus? Or perhaps a better question for today
would be, “who is the Santa Claus?” If Robbie Parker, the father of a Sandy Hook victim, with
love and generosity in his heart, can challenge us to be compassionate toward
all the suffering families, including the family of Adam Lanza, then is he the
Santa Claus? Is Mr. Macy the Santa Claus for donating a million dollars in
response to Santa mail from a million children? Is Jack Fagin, a Rotarian from
Saline, who matches donations every year from other Rotarians to have children
enjoy a Christmas shopping trip at Meijer, the Santa Claus? Is Mr. Meijer, who
donated a $1000 toward the Fagin challenge this year, a Santa Claus? Are the
Saline Area firefighters, paramedics, and friends who have over 800 toys ready
for delivery to local families, the Santa Claus?
Folks, I’ll leave it for you to decide. As for me, the correct answer
is (e), all of the above. As long as there are Jack Fagin’s and Saline
firefighters, and Mr. Meijer’s, and Mr. Macy’s out there, I can answer
truthfully, as did the editor of the Sun, over a hundred years ago, “Yes,
Virginia, there is a Santa Claus. He exists as certainly as love and generosity
and devotion exist, and you know that they abound and give to your life its
highest beauty and joy.”
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